Parenting Extreme Behaviors Education Suite · Until They're All Safe
Until They're All Safe · Safe Harbor Advocacy Initiative

The framework your family
has been waiting for.

The Parenting Extreme Behaviors Education Suite is a library of expert-led modules for parents and the professionals who serve them — because understanding what is actually driving your child's behavior changes every conversation you have about it.

22 Modules 2 Tracks Family + Provider Trauma-Informed Weekly Connection Groups Tax Deductible · 501(c)(3) Sliding Scale

This suite is for every family navigating extreme behaviors — biological parents, adoptive parents, foster parents, kinship caregivers, and the professionals walking alongside them. If your child has been labeled with RAD, FASD, DMDD, ODD, CD, or complex trauma, this is where you find the language and the framework to move forward.

What This Is

You are not missing information.
You are missing a framework.

Most families navigating extreme behaviors have read the articles. They've been to the appointments. They've tried the strategies. What they're missing is a shared language — between parents, providers, schools, and systems — that makes all of those efforts actually work together.

The Parenting Extreme Behaviors Education Suite exists to create that language. For every family — regardless of how your child came to you, or what label they've been given.

Family Track

For parents and caregivers navigating extreme behaviors at home

Practical, emotionally grounded education for caregivers in the middle of it — covering root causes, treatment navigation, safety planning, caregiver burnout, parental rights, and long-term outcomes. For biological, adoptive, foster, and kinship families.

Provider Track

For clinicians, caseworkers, educators, and legal professionals

Clinical and systems-focused training for professionals working with families managing complex behaviors — including what providers must understand about root causes, internal advocacy pathways, and how to support the families the system too often fails.

Who This Serves

Every family.
Every path here.

Extreme behaviors don't only live in one kind of family. This suite was built to reflect that truth.

Biological Families

You've always been their parent. The system keeps acting like the problem is you.

When your child receives a DMDD, ODD, or CD diagnosis, someone should be asking what's underneath. This suite helps you find those answers — and gives you the tools to advocate for your child's real needs.

Adoptive & Foster Families

You opened your home. No one prepared you for what extreme trauma behaviors actually look like.

This suite was originally built for you — and it still is. The depth of content on attachment, FASD, and complex trauma reflects years of listening to what adoptive and foster parents actually need.

Kinship & Relative Caregivers

You stepped up when a child needed someone. You deserve the same support as everyone else.

Kinship caregivers are often the least resourced and the least visible. Every module in this suite applies to your experience — and your rights and resources are specifically addressed.

Course Library

All 22 modules. Every track.

Modules are released in phases. Enroll in the full suite now for immediate access to available modules and all future releases.

M01 · Available Now
What's Really Driving These Behaviors — And Why Did No One Tell You?
Both TracksAvailable
Jennifer SmithGet This Module →
M02
Finding the Right Specialist — What to Look For, What to Avoid
Family Track
Lisa Kness
M03
Resources When Money Is the Barrier — Support for Every Family
Family Track
Jennifer Smith
M04
What Providers Must Know — Attachment, FASD, and Complex Trauma
Provider Track
Annmarie O'Daniel
M05
Safety Planning For Families in Crisis
Both Tracks
Jennifer Smith
M06
Understanding EPSDT
Both Tracks
Brittney Morgan
M07
Treatment Options for Children With Extreme Behaviors
Both Tracks
Brittney Morgan
M08 · NEW
The Grief of Placement — Releasing Shame and Judgment When Your Child Needs Residential or Inpatient Care
Both TracksNew
Kristina Miller
M09
Extreme Behaviors and the Legal System — A Guide for Professionals
Provider Track
TBA
M10
The Parent-Centered Coaching Model — Why Parent-Focused Therapy Works
Both Tracks
Jennifer Smith
M11
Attachment Disorders + FASD — When Two Root Causes Collide
Both Tracks
Kristina Miller
M12
Complex Kids in the Teen Years — When Behaviors Escalate
Family Track
Lisa Kness
M13
Caregiver Burnout and Secondary Trauma — You Cannot Pour From Empty
Family Track
Jennifer Smith
M14
Sibling Dynamics in High-Stress Households — Protecting the Whole Family
Family Track
Jennifer Smith
M15
Extreme Behaviors and the School System — IEPs, 504s, and Educator Resistance
Both Tracks
Jennifer Smith
M16
Co-Parenting a Complex Child — When You and Your Partner Are Not on the Same Page
Family Track
Lisa Kness
M17
Know Your Rights — A Guide for All Parents Navigating the System
Family Track
Jennifer Smith
M18
Financial Resources and Supports — What Every Family Should Know
Family Track
Lisa Kness
M19
When the System Fails — How Providers Can Advocate for Families With Complex Kids
Provider Track
Brittney Morgan
M20
Surviving the Hardest Season — Crisis Tools for Families Parenting Extreme Behaviors
Family Track
Jennifer Smith
M21
Complex Kids Into Adulthood — Planning for What Comes Next
Both Tracks
Lisa Kness
How Content Is Delivered

Every format you need.
Nothing you don't.

This suite was built with one specific reality in mind: many of the parents who need this content most are also navigating their own trauma. Every format decision was made with that in mind.

Video Module

Expert-led instruction with pacing and tone designed for learning — not just information delivery.

Full Written Module

The complete module in PDF — written to be read, not just downloaded. For parents who process better through text or need to revisit without re-watching.

Full Transcript

Word-for-word transcript of every session — searchable, printable, and shareable with providers, schools, or legal teams.

Active Learning Activities

Structured exercises in each module — not passive reading, but active processing designed to help parents apply learning to their real situation at home.

Parent Community

Discussion access with parents living the same reality. Module-specific conversations and support that only comes from people who actually understand what you are living through.

Weekly Connection Groups

Live weekly gatherings hosted by UTAS — a space to process, connect, and be seen by others who understand what you are living through.

Built for parents who are also survivors.

Parenting a child with extreme behaviors is one of the most traumatizing experiences a caregiver can face — and many parents arrive at this content carrying significant trauma of their own. Every module was intentionally formatted for parents experiencing PTSD: shorter segments, clear navigation, multiple modalities, and pacing that respects how trauma affects learning and retention.

Pricing & Access

Structured for access.
Priced with intention.

Every tier includes all delivery formats. Sliding scale pricing is available — no family is turned away for financial need.

All contributions are tax deductible. Until They're All Safe is an IRS-approved 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Your enrollment supports our mission to keep families together.

Family Track — For all parents and caregivers
Single Module

$88

Per module, available at release


  • Video module
  • Full written module PDF
  • Full transcript
  • Active learning activities
  • Lifetime access to that module
Available When Modules Release
Best Value Full Suite

$500

Save $1,348 vs. à la carte

All 22 modules, one time


  • All current + future modules
  • Both family and provider tracks
  • All formats for every module
  • Parent community access
  • Weekly connection groups
  • Live & recorded workshops
Enroll Now — $500
Provider Track — For clinicians, agencies & legal professionals
Single Module

$144

Per module, available at release


  • Video module
  • Full written module PDF
  • Full transcript
  • Active learning activities
  • CEU documentation support
  • Lifetime access to that module
Available When Modules Release
Best Value Full Suite

$1,000

Save $2,024 vs. à la carte

All 22 modules, one time


  • All current + future modules
  • Both family and provider tracks
  • All formats for every module
  • CEU documentation support
  • Agency-wide licensing available
  • Weekly connection groups
  • Contact for custom team pricing
Enroll Now — $1,000
Sliding Scale Access — No family navigating extreme behaviors should be priced out of education. If cost is a barrier, sliding scale pricing is available. Reach out before assuming you cannot access this — we will find a way.
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When you finally have language for what your family is living through, it changes every conversation you have — inside the treatment room and outside of it.

— Kristina Miller, Founder · Until They're All Safe

Ready to Start

Families should not have
to do this alone.

The Parenting Extreme Behaviors Education Suite exists so no family has to figure this out without a framework. Whatever brought you here — Enroll today and get immediate access to all available modules.

Get Access to the Suite

IRS-approved 501(c)(3) · All payments tax deductible · Sliding scale available

Every family deserves a framework. Every child deserves to be understood.
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