I parented two children whose behaviors were beyond anything I had been prepared for — and beyond what most of the providers around us had ever seen. I lived the version of this that so many of you are living right now: relaying information between people who never spoke to each other, trying to get someone to take what was happening at home seriously, and quietly terrified that the act of asking for help could be used against us instead of for our family.
That experience became a 350+ family research study — real data on what families like ours actually need to stay safe, and what the systems around them are missing, misreading, or never see at all. What we learned from that research became Until They're All Safe, and it is the foundation underneath every program below. Not a framework someone else built for families like ours. Ours — built so your family can get your child help, not legal consequences.
Weekly live connection, our full guide and book library, and a community that already understands.
22 expert-led modules giving you and your child's providers a shared framework.
Full-spectrum coordination — access to the right level of care, and protection from legal fallout.
Some families need a room full of people who get it before anything else. Some need language and a framework for what they're living through — for themselves and for the providers around their child. And some are past the point of needing information; they need someone coordinating the whole picture, getting their child access to the right level of care, and making sure the record protects them.
Below is all of it, in one place — what each path offers, what it costs, and who it's for.
For parents raising children with extreme behaviors — weekly live sessions, our full guide library, and the complete UTAS book collection, all in one membership. You don't need to explain your child to us here.
A dedicated space for siblings growing up alongside a brother or sister with RAD.
Direct, age-appropriate support sessions for kids navigating RAD themselves.
A library of expert-led modules for parents and the professionals who serve them. Understanding what is actually driving your child's behavior changes every conversation you have about it — with your child's providers, their school, and the systems around them.
Root causes, treatment navigation, safety planning, caregiver burnout, parental rights, and long-term outcomes — for biological, adoptive, foster, and kinship families.
Clinical and systems-focused training on root causes, internal advocacy pathways, and how to support families the system too often fails.
Single modules available at $88 (Family) / $144 (Provider). Sliding scale pricing available — no family is turned away for financial need.
Browse the Full Module Library →Safe Harbor Advocacy is our most hands-on level of support. It exists for two moments that most families in crisis eventually face: needing your child in a higher level of care, and needing protection from the legal consequences of trying to get them there.
Insurance and treatment programs require evidence most families don't know how to assemble. We build it with you.
Families are too often punished — through CPS involvement or legal scrutiny — for the exact steps they took to keep their child safe. We make sure the record tells the truth.
We communicate with your child's entire care team so everyone works from the same information — and you stop being the one relaying everything.
Schools, IEP teams, insurance, CPS, and legal processes — we help you navigate every system involved in your child's care.
Every Safe Harbor family — and every provider on your team — receives full access to the Parenting Extreme Behaviors Education Suite for the duration of membership.
"Families should never be in a position where no one can show what they did to try to protect their child." — Kristina Miller, Founder · Until They're All Safe
Tell us what your family is navigating. This starts your Safe Harbor inquiry — no cost, no commitment.
Get StartedSubmit your information and we'll follow up with program details and answers to your questions — at your pace.
Send a RequestBoth paths are free. There is no obligation either way.