The science of safety,
told by someone who's lived it.
Kristina Miller brings the nervous system, trauma, and family preservation to life for the rooms that need it most — naming what others talk around, and giving teams language they can actually use on Monday morning.
A founder, an author, and a parent who built the map from the inside.
Kristina Miller is the founder of Until They're All Safe and the author of seven books on trauma, the nervous system, and family survival. Her work sits where most people never manage to stand at once: deep in the research and deep in the lived experience.
She doesn't speak about families from a distance — she speaks as someone who has navigated the systems she now helps others understand. That combination is what makes a room go quiet. Audiences leave with the rare thing: clarity they can act on.
Keynotes that name the unnameable.
Each can be delivered as a keynote, a breakout, or expanded into a workshop. All are tailored to your audience.
Where Trauma Lives
Trauma isn't only a memory — it's a state the body holds. This talk maps how it settles into the nervous system, how it surfaces in everyday life, the effects it leaves, and what it actually feels like from the inside. The one that helps a room finally name what they've been carrying.
Moral Injury & the Wound We Don't Name
What happens when harm collides with conscience — and why moral injury so often hides inside trauma. An exploration of the wound that comes not just from what happened to us, but from what violated what we believe is right, and where the two intersect.
What's Actually Driving the Behavior
The nervous-system science behind extreme behaviors — why traditional discipline backfires, and what regulation-first care looks like in practice. For anyone who works with dysregulated children.
The Pace of Safety
Why healing can't be scheduled, and what it costs families when systems rush them. A reframe of trauma-informed care that puts the body — not the timeline — at the center.
Crisis Without Response
What our research reveals about what really happens when families ask for help — and the gap between the system's intentions and a family's reality. Data that changes the conversation.
Foundational Care, Not Crisis Care
A case for resourcing families before the breaking point — and a vision for the next era of family preservation. Equal parts evidence, lived experience, and call to action.
Training that changes how your people work.
Bring trauma-informed, neuro-somatic practice to your team — built for the systems that serve children and families every day.
Neuro-Somatic Trauma-Informed Care
A practical, body-based training for staff who work with children displaying extreme behaviors — moving teams from managing behavior to understanding it.
The Roots Model
An implementation training in the family-advocacy framework behind our work — including assessment tools your team can put to use immediately.
Custom Workshops
Half-day, full-day, or multi-session intensives designed around your organization's specific challenges, population, and goals.
Built to fit your room.
Keynotes
45–90 minute talks for conferences, summits, and staff gatherings.
Workshops
Interactive half- and full-day sessions with tools your team keeps.
Training Series
Multi-session programs that build lasting practice change over time.
The most powerful two hours I've ever had — more effective than five years of therapy.
Bring Kristina to your team or stage.
Tell us about your event or organization, your audience, and what you're hoping they walk away with. We'll be in touch to build something that fits.